Deena L. Stacer, Ph.D.
Dr. Deena Stacer –International High Conflict-Coparenting Intervention Specialist and Parent Education Consultant.
Dr. Deena Stacer works as a parent educator and consultant with families and professionals-who are involved in litigious and conflictual child custody cases. She has been a parent educator since 1983 and has worked internationally with families in conflict and with the professionals who work with the families in conflict since 1983. Dr. Stacer is the Co-Founder and Director of the High Conflict Intervention and Coparenting Program (1997). She has worked with over 4000 conflictual child custody cases by teaching parents, working with the children or strategizing with family law specialists and mental health professionals to help protect the children and end the conflict. She has mediated over 850 divorce cases in San Diego. She has traveled both nationally and internationally, speaking and training professionals involved with these cases to strategies to manage these cases more effectively.
Dr. Stacer along with Fred Stemen developed the material for the program based on proven strategies that are unconventional and help parents to think completely differently once they begin working with Dr. Stacer. She and Fred developed approaches using the concepts that parents involved in conflictual cases have high levels of anxiety that need to be calmed down, using techniques that immediately help them to think clearer and more focused. She helps parents to redirect their anger at the other parent toward focusing instead on strategies to get closer to the children and to help them become empowered. She works with parents who are often frightened by the other parent, (who may be a high conflict personality) and she refocuses these parents on ways to let go of the conflict and focus on creating a new life away from the fight.
Dr. Stacer has been published in the Family Law Update, yearly, from 2000 until 2010 when a new publisher took over and changed the format for the publication. She teaches skills, strategies and scripts to help both parents and children get out of the middle of the conflict. Stacer uses stories and proven exercises to help parents calm down, eliminate their child sharing fears, redirect their anger away from the fight, toward getting out of the court system. She teaches parents successful strategies to create powerful connections with their children so they remain closer to them and are not damaged by the conflict. She offers insight and helpful techniques to coparent more effectively with a difficult or high conflict parent.
Dr. Deena has a doctorate in psychology, (specializing in high conflict intervention strategies), a master’s degree in counseling/leadership, teaching credentials ranging from pre-kindergarten through college and a Bachelor of Science Degree in child development and social sciences.
Speaking, Training and Published Material
Dr. Stacer has been published in the Family Law Journal, in 2000, 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2006, 2007, 2008, 2009 and 2010. The chapters in the Family Law Journal are stories written about clients involved in litigated high conflict custody cases. The chapters are written for family law attorneys to help illustrate the tools and techniques attorneys can implement to resolve these difficult cases with high conflict personalities. Dr. Stacer has presented on panels of certified family law attorneys and judges both locally and internationally, sharing strategies on reducing these cases. Dr. Stacer has presented various programs both nationwide and internationally. For example, Dr Stacer has presented numerous training programs for family law specialists, judges and mediators, covering topics such as recognizing high conflict personalities, strategies to end cases quickly, helping parents disengage from the fight and getting parents to focus on the children. She has presented at the New Orleans, Family Bar Convention on recognizing and ending high conflict custody cases. In Kingston Ontario, Canada she presented at the Conference of the International Society of Family Lawyers on the concept of “high conflict triangles” and how to reduce the impact of these cases in the court system. In Hong Kong, she trained social workers, mediators, child protective workers, certified family law specialists, family law judges and high court judges for four days. Topics included recognizing and managing high conflict cases, developing strategies to help parents end their conflict quickly, teaching parents to protect their children, controlling the high conflict parent, and helping parents get out of the court system as quickly as possible. Dr. Stacer presented in Canada at the Conference of the International Society of Family Lawyers Conference. In Omaha, Nebraska, she presented asix-hour training for family mediators as part of the Superior Court Family Law division. She presented in Orange County, CA, at the Conference For The Society and Study of Social Problems in Orange County, CA on high conflict cases complicated by a new stepparent.
Parents in San Diego, in Hong Kong, and throughout the United States are participating in the online conflictual and coparenting courses and are giving the courses top ratings for quality of information and help in reducing their conflict. If you would like to see a sample of parent’s answers to the questions related to their progress and success, contact Dr. Stacer at Doc(at)DeenaStacer.com.